Another thing people don’t understand about severe hearing loss; I don’t think they understand the pain of it.
I’ve written before about how helpful I found some counselling sessions in 2017, when things were at their worst. The most helpful thing the counsellor did, in hindsight, was to give a name to my emotions. “I’m hearing a lot of grief” she said. Naming it was powerful. Yes, it was grief. It was a very profound grief, akin to losing someone very close to me, because indeed I had. I had lost a part of myself. Not just my hearing but my confidence, my personality…….quite a lot of “me”, in fact. Continue reading